Invest in yourself.
That perception could be changing, though. If you want healthy relationships, you need to become the kind of person that has healthy relationships. We believe something about us is self-contained, and exists outside of space and time.
Push into the unknown and do what needs to be done to get where you want even if you are afraid to do it. It's the chain around your neck, stopping you from putting yourself into situations that will demand you become a better version of you. They can bring about the positive change that you desire.
Being ambitious isn't enough. Hence, they sleep late and wake early.
You may feel that your life lacks the excitement of achievement. The last thing you need to be right now is lazy. This will make you more motivated to continue.